It’s often hard to tell when a guy is all in. Knowing the signs he’s getting attached can help you figure out if he’s ready to commit to you.
Men aren’t always great at articulating when they’re fully ready to commit to you. In all honesty, it can often be up to you to figure out the signs he’s getting attached. Once you can tell, not only does it make you feel more secure, but it can help you solidify your relationship status.
And let’s be real: some guys can be a little sensitive when it comes to defining your relationship status a little too early. If they’re not quite attached yet, it might scare them off and intimidate them if you’re ready and they’re not there yet.
Men have their own way of showing just how much they want to commit
It’s like a different language, in a sense. Guys have unique ways of showing you they want to commit and that they’re even attached. Sure, some men are brazened enough to just tell you, but that’s not really the norm.
For that reason, being able to read some of the subtler signs he’s getting attached can actually help your relationship progress on better terms. You’ll have a better understanding of where you stand and that’ll help you both move forward. [Read: 10 best-kept secrets for making a man commit to you]
Signs he’s getting attached and wants to commit
If you’re growing attached yourself, it’s normal to know where he stands. These are all the signs your man is ready to commit and wants to start a real relationship with you.
#1 You’re a priority to him. Any man who wants to be with you will make you a priority. No matter what’s going on in his life, he’ll find a way to make time for you. You’ll notice this most when he has to shuffle his schedule around because he wants to be there for you even just for a single date night.
#2 He’s there when you’re upset. Guys who aren’t ready to commit won’t be the ones to rush over when something upsetting has happened. That means if he’s coming to soothe you when things get hard, he’s serious about you. [Read: 30 facts about guys that can help you read his mind]
#3 He wants to know about your goals and dreams. A guy who wants to be in your future will be curious about what it looks like. He’ll want to know all about your aspirations and where you see your life going. Asking about your dreams and goals in life is a major sign he’s getting attached and is committed to you.
#4 He puts forth effort with your friends and family. Think about all the times he’s been around your friends or family, if he’s met them. Was he talkative, asking questions, and seemed genuinely interested in them? If so, he’s probably super attached already.
#5 He’d rather spend time with you doing nothing than out with friends. Now, don’t think that just because a guy wants to go be with friends that he’s not attached. This has more to do with the fact that if he’s hanging out with you and gets a call to go out with friends but decides to stay in and cuddle, he’s serious about you.
#6 He remembers those little things. When a guy pays extra attention to things like your preferred type of bread or even how you take your coffee, he’s attached. He wants to make sure those little things are correct and it means he’s paying extra attention to everything about you, too. [Read: The little things in love that makes romance better]
#7 He lets you know what his plans are. This has a lot to do with respecting you and the fact that you’re involved in his life. He won’t just leave you hanging when it comes to his whereabouts, especially if he won’t be able to reach his phone wherever he’s going. This just proves how serious he is about you.
#8 He respects your time. He’s not looking to waste it, basically. If you have to be somewhere at a certain time with him and he makes sure to be on time, it means he takes it seriously. One of those huge signs he’s getting attached is if he respects the time you have and even the time you set aside for him.
#9 He brings you around his friends and family. If a guy doesn’t want to commit, there’s no point in introducing you to the important people in his life. Going out of his way to make sure they meet and like you is one of the more major signs he’s getting attached and is even planning a future with you in it.
#10 He tells you intimate details about him and his life. When you two sit down to talk and he divulges deep and meaningful information about his life, he’s already hooked. Guys don’t just go around dishing out that kind of stuff on a whim.
It means he trusts you and wants you to know a deeper side of him. That’s usually because he wants to know a deeper side of you and is already attached to you. Letting you inside his world is huge.
#11 You talk about deep, complex issues. Your conversations aren’t shallow. You two really connect and dig deep on complex issues. This has a lot to do with his level of commitment. The more in-depth you discuss matters, the more his feelings for you grow and show through.
#12 He calls and texts first. He wants to keep up communication with you. This is just something guys do when they’re into you in general. He’ll be the one to initiate conversations, dates, and the like. The more he does this, the more attached he really is.
#13 He worries about you. If he doesn’t hear from you in a while, what’s his reaction? Does he check in on you just to make sure you’re okay? If so, it’s a great sign that he’s already attached. He’s worried about you when he’s not around.
And it’s not just that he’s insecure and needs your attention. When a man worries about you, he wants you to be safe. That shows just how much he cares for you.
#14 He shows interest in your hobbies. A man who is attached to you is attached to all parts. He wants to know how you spend your free time and why you like doing those things. He’ll be really interested in your hobbies and passions because he wants to be a part of that side of your life. And that’s because he’s really attached to you and ready to be a part of your life in all ways.
#15 He tells you. Some guys will just tell you that he’s hooked. He’ll express how much he cares about you with his words and that’s a huge deal. It isn’t easy for many men to talk about those types of things so if he’s making an effort, he means it.
Knowing the signs he’s getting attached is important for so many reasons. Once you realize just how committed he is, you can melt into your new relationship with more ease and comfort.