Afro Di’ja, real name Hadiza Salma Blell had a super secret wedding, and when she eventually had her first born child, it was kept away from the public.
She has now revealed the reason for all the secrecy. In a chat with LIB, she also gave reasons why she never posts her husband’s pictures on her social media.
When asked why she didn’t post her husband’s photos on social media, she said:
Even before we got married he is a very private person, and i actually believe in respecting people’s zones until they are ready. It’s not like we don’t. So because a lot of things don’t happen right now-people are like, why are you not doing this and why are you not doing that, what’s wrong, what are you hiding, you know what i mean?
We are not hiding anything, we actually go to events together and do stuff together, and i just feel, for me, am not very good at…, I like enjoying the moment, yeah, and am actually very bad at doing the posting thing. I don’t know if you have noticed, i mean recently, I started doing selfies when people were like, Di’ja, why are you not doing selfies? So not long ago, i did my very first mirror selfie, (Laughs).
Not like i don’t want to do these things sometimes, I just enjoy the moments and forget to take pictures when we hang out, that’s why presently, i am always begging my crew, (‘please help me take pictures mek me sef dey pose na, wetin dey happen?’) So, it’s just that thing where I am enjoying the moment and then I forget. So we are not hiding anything. Sometimes if he can make it with me to an event, he comes, and if can’t, he will come to the next. So it’s not like he is not there, or that it doesn’t happen, i guess it’s just that, it happens and i don’t get to translate it on my page.
On why she had a very low key wedding.
WELL, I MEAN, IF YOU CALL HAVING ABOUT 400 PEOPLE GRACE YOUR WEDDING LOW KEY, THEN I GUESS, YEAH. IT WAS MORE OF JUST INTIMATE AND IT’S ALSO IN MY HOME TOWN, KADUNA, SO IT’S KIND OF HARD TO GET PEOPLE TO COME OVER THERE AND THEN KADUNA IS NOT AS ‘NOISY’ AS LAGOS.
SO ANYTHING LIKE THAT COULD BE PROBABLY CALLED LOW KEY, BUT LIKE I SAID, MOST OF THESE THINGS ARE HAPPENING BUT, WHERE THE PROBLEM LIES IS THAT I JUST DON’T TRANSLATE THEM ONTO BEING POSTED ON MY PAGE. AND I GUESS IN THE ‘POST IT’ ‘TWEET IT’ WORLD; YOU ALMOST KIND OF LOOK ABNORMAL IF YOU DON’T. BUT IT’S NOT LIKE AM GOING OUT OF MY WAY NOT TO, I GUESS IT’S JUST NOT IN MY CHARACTER TO DO IT ALL THE TIME, BUT I’M ALSO GETTING BETTER AT MY INSTAGRAM. AT LEAST YOU SEE MY BABY AND ALL OTHER STUFF, (LAUGHS).
SO I ALWAYS SAY THERE IS DIFFERENCE BETWEEN PRIVACY AND SECRECY, IT’S NOT SOMETHING TO HIDE. AGAIN, I GUESS PEOPLE FORGET THAT WHEN YOU ARE IN THE ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY, YOU ALSO HAVE TO LIVE A NORMAL LIFE. FOR INSTANCE, I WAKE UP IN THE MORNING AND I GIVE MY SON A BATH, AND SOMETIMES MY MOM WILL, AND OTHER TIMES, IT IS A MAID AND AN AUNT THAT WOULD HELP ME WITH HIM. SO DON’T FORGET YOU HAVE A REAL LIFE TOO AND YOU HAVE PEOPLE TO ANSWER TO AS WELL.
AGAIN YOU WAKE UP AND YOU HAVE PEOPLE THAT ARE DEPENDING ON YOU, AND PEOPLE YOU PAY FOR THE WORK THEY DO FOR YOU, YOU KNOW AS MUCH AS WE HAVE THIS ENTERTAINMENT LIFE, AND IT’S AMAZING, I MEAN, GOD BLESS YOU ALL FOR LIKING US SO MUCH BECAUSE IT’S ACTUALLY YOUR LOVE THAT HAS PUT US ON THE PEDESTAL, BUT WE ALSO DO THESE THINGS AND WAKE UP WITH A REGULAR LIFE, SO IN THAT SENSE AND SOMETIMES BECAUSE I COULD GET CARRIED AWAY, THAT’S MAJORLY THE PROBLEM.